Chris vs Tom fandom war

Okay, I gotta say something that's been bugging me for awhile. No offense is meant from this post. Everything stated is what I personally think, and isn't meant to reflect the opinions of anyone else.

( My thoughts and feelings  )

Promote what you love. Even if you don't end up liking the other actor, please don't bash them because the only thing you're doing is making people hurt and frustrated. I know I don't have the power to really make a difference in either fandom because I'm just a quiet lurker, but I want others to know that people are getting hurt, and some of them are my friends. I won't stand for that and I'm sorry that this post was posted too late to avoid people getting hurt. I know you all are wonderful people, and I just want you guys to think about how absolutely spectacular fandom would be if we stopped this Chris vs Tom war.